In the arena of politics and public policy, “Old People Rule.” Well, I guess in many ways they do. Why? Because they have the time. As flippant as that may sound, it’s true. But you know what? They have the time because they’ve put in their time. Their families are grown and their time is their own. They are able to attend meetings without worrying about whether the sitter is really responsible. They have the time and they make good use of it. Most of the time I take comfort in that thought, knowing my time will come.

Normally when I read an editorial about how apathetic the working public is, I feel a bit guilty, but eventually my guilt turns to frustration (“Geriatric set is taking charge,” Aug. 29-Sept. 4, SMN). I used to be so politically active, but that was before marriage and children.

I had planned to attend the meeting referred to in the editorial — it was in ink on my calendar. But I didn’t make it. As I was getting dressed, my husband called to tell me he would be delayed at work.
Since I have two young children and child care is not available at most meetings, I stayed put, felt guilty and attended to the business of caring for my children and home. I always think if I had just scheduled a sitter, if I could find a sitter, maybe ....

This is not the first time I have been unable to attend a meeting due to child-care issues, and it won’t be the last. I think apathy is part of the problem for some, but for many it is the issue of care for their children. The answer is not as simple as hiring a sitter. Like many of my peers, I feel more comfortable when my children are cared for by family. I have hired sitters before so I can work undisturbed, but a family member is always home. I have often wondered if parents with similar concerns would be more able and willing to attend these meetings if on-site childcare was provided for a reasonable fee.

I have faith in those seniors who are sitting in for me. I just hope and pray they remember my husband, myself and two young children are counting on them.

(Individuals interested in the idea of on-site child care at public meetings, please contact Tia Lambert at TVIGNOCHI@charter.net or TVIGNOCHI@aol.com or 452.4249.)

Tia Lambert
Waynesville

 

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